There comes a time in any couple’s relationship where you want to spice things up a little. This is perfectly natural, and not something to be worried about. However, there are certain steps you’ll want to take before you go out and start fucking everyone sight.

Here’s what you should think about before you get going.

Talk to your partner

This is absolutely, 100% crucial before you do anything else. Anything you’re going to bringing up with other couples, you’re going to have to be completely on the same page as with your partner.

What are you both comfortable with? Guy on guy, girl on girl, both on both, voyeurism, exhibitionism, more extreme stuff like bondage, spanking et al? It may be that once group sex is brought up, a lot of other kinks come out into the open, as it’s an acceptable space to try new and exciting things, so be prepared in case fetishes or other sexy predilections come to light.

Selection is key

Are you going to be fucking your friends, or complete strangers, or people you don’t know that well? In some respects, friends are the perfect place to start – you know them, you feel comfortable around them, you trust them – but these very factors can be a huge turn-off for some, as they might feel majorly awkward, or worried that they’re going to ruin an otherwise great friendship.

Complete strangers lie at the opposite end of the spectrum; you don’t have to worry about ruining something long-lasting and beautiful, but at the same time, they might turn out to be a little more…experimental (or indeed not experimental enough) in the bedroom, and to not fit with how you want things to go. The less you know about them, the more variables there are to potentially go wrong. On the flip side, you’re not necessarily going to know the intimate mating habits of your friends, no matter how close you, so depending on the couple, this may not be a factor.

Set ground rules

What are the rules of your relationship? Some people decide not to date other people on their own, others are happy with a much more open situation. For a lot of people, seeing their significant other bringing joy and pleasure to a close friend is a massive turn on, but not something you’d want to happen without your knowledge.

Consider how comfortable you’d be with your girl sucking off a handsome gentleman.Likewise, think about how you’d feel if your man passionately fucked a gorgeous broad.

Group sex is inevitably going to stir up a lot of emotions – that’s very much the point – you just need to make sure you’re as emotionally (and physically – you don’t want to be the least fit in the room!) prepared as possible before you enter into it.

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