If you’re the sort of couple that hasn’t quite made it past the missionary position yet, let us introduce you to some of the easiest ways that you can spice up the old missionary position to bring back the zest that has fizzled out in your relationship.

It’s easy to get into a pattern with a partner and this is something that seems to happen sooner on in the relationship these days with stresses of day to day life taking over. You start to have sex in the same position every night, with the lights off, with no real effort put into things. It gets a little depressing after a while, especially if you had originally enjoyed good sex right at the beginning of the relationship.

Did Someone Say Kama Sutra?

Very often, it is the smallest things that you can change that can make the biggest difference. You don’t have to trawl through the Kama Sutra to find new sex positions. It doesn’t need to be that complicated. It needs to be something as simple and subtle as moving the leg into a different position. You know what women are like – if you start bringing a new position to the table, she’s going to think you can learned it from someone else and then accuse you of having an affair. That’s what they do right, guys? Sigh…

Anyway, back to the topic in hand and we want to give you a few examples of how you can add a bit of sparkle to an otherwise boring position.

Making the Missionary Position Sparkle

We’ll start with something simple like the missionary position. Rather than having her legs bent at the knee and her feet flat on the bed, why not move her legs so that they are wrapped around your waist? Her pelvis will be lifted slightly higher and you have a better chance of hitting the right spots. You could even go as far as to pop a pillow under her butt to really get some nice, deep penetration in there…

Of course, you could always go that little bit further and pop her ankles on your shoulders. If you hold her legs together and slightly bend them at the knee, you can get some pretty deep penetration in there and if she has got her legs closed (excuse the pun), it feels really tight too. If you open her legs slightly, you have the perfect position to reach down and play with her clitoris at the same time. Maybe lean forward a little and play with her nipples while you’re there? Look right into her eyes as you do it – you’ll soon see when she is starting to enjoy it. Just try not to look too much like a stalker while you are looking at her right in the eyes. During sex this can sometimes be a little unnerving and that won’t be great for either of you.

Livening up old sex positions is easy when you know how and there are plenty of little spins that you can put on old ways to revamp them. Holding her arms behind her back while you are screwing her doggy style, for example, has a slight hint of BDSM about it and can certainly liven things up a treat.

Let’s hope we’ve given you some inspiration on how to impress her in bed tonight. Why not give these a shot and let us know how you get on?

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