So you’ve followed our dildo buyer’s guide and found the toy for your lady. Hopefully by now you’ve both acquainted yourselves with it and are ready to start trying new things. Excellent.

With that in mind, here are some advanced dildo techniques that’ll supercharge your sex life and send both you and your partner’s orgasms into overdrive.

Sit on it

We’re talking to the women here: once you’ve got a dildo you like, place it on a flat surface that you can straddle like a pile of cushions or the arm of a sofa and sit on it so that it runs the length of your vulva from clit to anus. Move your weight back and forth, putting the most sensitive parts of you in touch with the dildo, increasing the pace and pressure as required to build up to a storming climax.

Combo it

While you’re having sex with your girl, bring a dildo into play to reach the areas you can’t. If you’re penetrating her with your cock, get either her or you to massage her clit with the top of the dildo to create a great combination of stimuli. If you’re doing her from behind, that’s the perfect opportunity to grab a dildo and tease her clit alongside your cock. There are plenty of positions from where this works, and it’s always an exciting extra element to lovemaking.

Tie her up

Many people like an element of bondage – the feeling of mock helplessness – and dildos are a great way to play with that. Tie her up, and rub the dildo over her body, teasing it at the very edge of her cunt, around her lips, over her nipples, even near her butt (depending on the position of the tying). Arrange a safe word beforehand, and then you can really explore the boundaries of decency without worrying that you’re genuinely upsetting your other half.

Use it all over

Tying in (pun very much intended) with the above point, using the dildo in places other than the anus can really get things going. Running it around her mouth, especially working on her nipples can be a really great way of raising the temperature before eventually sliding it into her moistening cunt.

Don’t be afraid to get more than one dildo in on the action, too. Playing with her clit while you’re sucking on her nipples leaves a dildo to use to penetrate and hit her g-spot, but there’s always anal too. Depending on the adventurousness of your partner, with your cock, your hands and a couple of dildos in play, you can pleasure her in just about every orifice she desires. The more the merrier.

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So you’ve followed our dildo buyer’s guide and found the toy for your lady. Hopefully by now you’ve both acquainted yourselves with it and are ready to start trying new things. Excellent.

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